Friday, November 14, 2008

爸爸, 你何時將新的手還給我‏?

在美國的加州有一個小女孩大約是 4 歲.

她的父親有一台大卡車,她的父親非常喜歡那台卡車 .
總是為那台車做全套的保養,以保持卡車的美觀 .

一天,小女孩拿著硬物在他父親的卡車鈑金上劃下了無數的刮痕 !!
她的父親盛怒之下,用鐵絲把小女孩的手綁起來 .
然後吊著小女孩的手,讓她站在車庫罰站
當父親想起小女兒在車庫罰站時,已經是 4個小時過後了!
趕到車庫時,小女孩的手已經被鐵絲綁的血液不通!
父親送她到急診室時,已經需要截去小女孩的手掌了.
因為,手掌部分的組織已經都壞死,如不截去手掌 ...

她生命非常危險,甚至可能會危害到小女孩的生命 ...

所以小女孩就這樣失去了她的一雙手掌了 !

但是她不懂..... 她不懂到底是發生了什麼事在她的身上 ....

而她的父親也因為這樣感到萬分的愧疚 !

過了約半年後 ,小女孩的父親的卡車進廠重新烤漆,又像全新的一樣.
當他把卡車開回家後,小女孩看著重新烤漆過的卡車 ,說

"Daddy your truck looks so cool, like a brand new one!"
<<爸爸 ! 你的卡車好漂亮唷!看起來就像是新卡車 >>

這時小女孩無邪的伸出了她那截斷的雙手,對她的父親說

"but when will you give me back my hands?"
<< 但是你什麼時候要把我的手還給我?? >>

你們知道當那位父親聽到小女孩問他的問題時,發生了什麼事嗎 ?

那位父親在小女孩的面前 ..... 舉槍自殺 .......



很多人分不清 .....到底什麼是重要的?

只會無知迷失在自我的喜好當中 ........

就如有些人會去 慈濟幫忙掃街,但家事從來不管 .......

有些人會花很多錢去建廟,但對自己的親人如鐵公雞 .....

有些人在外面和言悅色,但對自己的卻家人暴躁如雷 ......

這就是說 那個父親不知是車子重要,或是女兒重要呢?

而遺憾的事..... 世間到處充滿了這些事 .....

而且就在你我之間 ....


只要是金錢可以買到的;
都比不上無價的可貴,
請不要吝嗇,多給家人一點愛!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

bristol and bath.



finally beetee is here in manchester. i could get my photos off him to post my blog. AT LAST.

i started this year with the heaviest schedule ever. time was so tight. it was like 9-5 everyday. i was going crazy seeing patients n attending different hospitals. i needed a get-away. n cool, beetee is stuck in bristol now n i had a new place to run to during the weekend.

we joined the trip oraganized by the bristol uni to stonehenge n bath.

stonehenge! i had been wanting to go so much n finally!

mmm it was all stones n to me it wasnt particularly exciting. im not very historical u see.





after 3 hours we countined our way to bath, the little palm-sized town.

romans bath. paid 9 pounds omg.


little sally lunn's.





bristol. i js think it is like another version of KL. so big compared to manchester. so city-like. n the shopping is exciting. i was saying when i m damn free wif money i wil disturb beetee again to do shopping in bristol. free accommodation n food n entertainment n mango service =)

met my dear taiping frens. frens i know for more than a decade. frens i wil always lov eventho i don see them often. u guys made me think of small little taiping so much.


a nice escape for 2 days. thank you koay beetee.